Table of Contents
 

       Introduction ................................................................................. 7


       Chap 1: Is Your Ego Roadkill Yet?

Stop Trying to Get Lucky, Get Informed ........................................... 12
Romantic Ratings ............................................................................... 15
Four Types of Attractiveness - Rejection Sensitivity ...................... 17
My Sad and Pathetic Story ............................................................... 19
Becoming Fearless is a Learned Skill ............................................ 23
The Female Mating Call .................................................................... 25

       Chap 2: Seduction: How the Game is Played

The Importance of Establishing Yourself as a Player ...................... 28
It's All Subconscious with Her ............................................................ 30
The Nice Guy Blues Explained .......................................................... 32
Nice Guys on Parade ......................................................................... 36
Instant Charisma and Classy Courage ............................................. 39
How Does Your Blood Smell? ........................................................... 41

       Chap 3: The Male Dominance Scale Exposed

Are You a 2.5 or a 9.5? ....................................................................... 45
High Status Males vs. Low Status Males .......................................... 47
The Way Women Want Men to Act .................................................... 52
The Seven Attributes Women Love to See ....................................... 56
But None of this Works for You ........................................................... 62

       Chap 4: Comfortable Wimps, Tough Men

How Toxic Shame Keeps You in a Straitjacket ................................ 63
Your Secretly Shamed Affection Needs ............................................ 68
Anchors Aweigh ................................................................................... 75
The Zone of Discomfort ....................................................................... 80
Why You End Up Friends Instead of Lovers ...................................... 84

       Chap 5: Essential Flirting

Seek Adventure, Not Outcome ........................................................... 92
Pretending You Don't Want it ............................................................. 101
The Rejection-Proof Process for First Contact ................................ 104
On Rejection Sensitivity ...................................................................... 113
Instant Rapport? .................................................................................. 115
Visuals, Auditories and Kinesthetics ................................................ 119
Romance is a Trance ......................................................................... 123
Five Minute First Contact Scenario, In Review ................................ 132

       Chap 6: Closing the Sale

Escalate When the Time is Right ....................................................... 141
You Must Disclose Your Sexual Interest ............................................ 143
Be the First One to Reach Out and Touch Her ................................. 147
The Arrogance of an Assumptive Attitude ........................................ 152
The Deep Look .................................................................................... 156
Deliver a Knockout First Kiss ............................................................. 157
Putting it All Together .......................................................................... 164

       Chap 7: The Big Picture

Delivering on Her Four Primary Emotional Needs .......................... 167
Your Four Primary Emotional Needs ................................................ 175
The "Right One", defined .................................................................... 178
Getting Her Addicted to You .............................................................. 181
Your Perfect Pad for Shagging .......................................................... 184
You Evil Bastard, I shouldn't have shown you any of this ................. 189


       Appendix A ................................................................................. 195

            Cayman Magic – (A fictional pick-up story)

       Appendix B ................................................................................. 219

            Mike's 7 Mega-Rules of Men / Women Relations

       Appendix C ................................................................................. 221

            The Dominant Male Test

       Appendix D ................................................................................ 229

            Scoring the DM Test & Interpretation of Results
 

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Table of Contents

Introduction ............................................................................................ 7


Part 1: Understanding You

Your 7 Necessary Skills as a Man: ................................................. 18

       Self Reliance ................................................................................... 20
       Emotional Balance ......................................................................... 23
       A Realistic Self Image ................................................................... 28
       Fear and Pain Control ................................................................... 37
       Sexual Confidence ......................................................................... 48
       Financial Sanity .............................................................................. 50
       A Standard Mate Hunting Routine ................................................ 56

Developing An Edge For Yourself ....................................................... 58
Crackpots and First Impressions ........................................................ 59


Part 2: Understanding Her

Five Essential Things to Know About Women ............................ 64

       Hot Chickness is a Superpower .................................................... 65
       Self-Transcendence Makes Her Different .................................... 73
       Attraction For Her is All About Chemistry ..................................... 81
       She Can Cheat, You Can't ............................................................. 91
       Eye Contact Defines a Woman's Romantic Universe ................ 95

 

Part 3: Meeting Women

The Mechanics of Attraction ................................................................. 115
What Women Want to Hear .................................................................. 120
Complicated Pick-up Lines Kill ............................................................ 122
Effective Opening Comments .............................................................. 123
Pull-Tabbing ........................................................................................... 126
Reading Her Mood ................................................................................ 132
Confess Your Fear ................................................................................ 134
Pacing the Conversation ...................................................................... 136
Custom Commenting ............................................................................ 137
Revealing the Hit ................................................................................... 139
Set Her Up for the Close ...................................................................... 144
Card Sharking ....................................................................................... 146
Meeting Women in Bars and Clubs .................................................... 153
A Fictional Example of Pull-Tabbing ................................................... 158


Part 4: Dating Her

The Dreaded First Phone Call .............................................................. 171
Image, Investigation & Escalation ........................................................ 180
The Three Date Master Seduction ....................................................... 188

Date #1 -- The Action Date ................................................................. 191

       Action = Passion ............................................................................. 193
       First Visual Impression ................................................................... 194
       Flowers and Candy? ....................................................................... 196
       Setting Yourself Up for the Second Date ...................................... 198

Date #2 -- The Connecting Date ........................................................ 201

       Spark Her Up .................................................................................... 205
       5 Critical Steps to Avoiding the Friends Zone .............................. 206
       Your Behaviors Create a Trance .................................................... 211
       Non-Verbal Signs of Interest ........................................................... 214


 

Date #3 -- The Romance Date

       No Fear in the Red zone ................................................................ 216
       Benevolent Manipulation ................................................................ 219
       Negotiating Closeness .................................................................. 223


Part 5: Her Sexual Enchantment

The Trance of Romance Revisited ....................................................... 232
Custom Designed Sexual Seduction ................................................... 234
Her Sexual Enchantment ....................................................................... 236
First Sex .................................................................................................. 240
First Sex Do's-and-Don't's .................................................................... 243
Second Sex ............................................................................................ 246
Passion Models the Response You Desire ........................................ 249
Third Sex the Infinite and Beyond ......................................................... 253
Helga the Horrible .................................................................................. 257
Defining the Perfect Sexual Partner .................................................... 262
Keep the Child in You Alive .................................................................. 267
Shamelessness is the Key ................................................................... 270


Conclusion:
The Clock Never Rests ..................................................................... 273
 

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