New HSM Audio Training Series
April 2008


      Greetings my friend.  Well, after several months of relentless scripting, recording and editing I'm very happy to announce that my inaugural HSM audio program is now finished and eagerly awaiting your assessment:

Dealing With Your Fear of Rejection

This has all been quite an interesting adventure and a real learning experience for me as well -- moving from the backstage universe of the written page into the hot spotlight of narrator!   I had to learn how to become the voice "talent" (yeah right) in addition to being scriptwriter, editor and sound engineer all rolled into one... but I think I may've pulled it off to some degree, and I hope you'll take a moment to check it out and see the results for yourself.

What I've decided to do is create an on-going production series which will be known as the High Status Male Audio Training Series (ATS) to which I plan to add a steady line of new programs and productions on a fairly regular basis.

To kick things off in notable fashion, I wanted to begin by tackling the most troublesome topic that acts as a pivot point around which all other aspects of this whole subject of meeting women revolves, and that's fear of rejection.   This hated curse remains the biggest issue that many guys still continue to struggle with despite all the books they may've read or courses they've taken, and I can sure understand that... my own youthful dreams having been laid waste by it's dark and deadly "gatekeeper" power.

So this debut album of mine is called Dealing With Your Fear of Rejection -- and since I really wanted this #1 issue in my new ATS series to be a memorable one, I went crazy and loaded tons of extra stuff into this deal...  I made it longer than I'd originally imagined, produced a bunch of written study material to go along with everything, and even got together with an NLP / hypnosis guy to create an optional add-on to the program that's designed to break through unconscious barriers that could be holding you back.

What I wanted to do was focus straight in on just this one particular topic and really run it to the ground. I divided the discussion into three sub-topics called Theory, Technique and Motivation.   Parts 1 & 3 delve into inner game issues such as toxic shame, social anxiety or how you could be secretly disguising deeper concerns about how women can be made to fit into your little world as a "phoney" fear of rejection, etc.

But Part 2 is the real "meat and potatoes" of the program.   I took the concept introduced in my second book called Pull Tabbing and really expanded it out into a complete system for casually meeting women, while you're just out there in the real world. I actually created a flowchart like some middle-managment geek to help you visualize and remember the entire process, and to provide you with a way to pace yourself while "in the act" of hitting on a chick.   I then developed some dialogs you can use straight out of the book and even gave you a formula to make up your own if you don't like mine.

Speaking of books... the writer in me couldn't resist writing something so I produced a companion 40 page Workbook which you download in .PDF format along with the rest of the program. This workbook makes it easier to follow along with the audio and study and memorize all the techniques that I lay out. This makes the whole thing a true home study course I guess (maybe I need to make up some fancy diplomas too? ;-)

This audio program is two and a half hours long, divided into 4 tracks, and is presented in both MP3 and Windows Media (.wma) format for immediate download.   The MP3's are further offered in both an original and Pro Mastered version, while the .wma's are 60% smaller in size for those with slower connections.   You'll be able to grab any or ALL of these files once you hit the download page.

And further... to really pile on some more goodies into this launch, I hooked up with a highly acclaimed NLP / hypnosis guy named Destin Lucas.   Mr. Lucas is author of The Inner Secrets of Greatness, an engaging book that unearths 42 of the most powerful success secrets in history.   He's also a certified NLP Master Practitioner specializing in Excellence Modeling.    Destin and his wife Trei run a website called Dawning Truth.com where they sell a variety of products designed to help you overcome various life issues and just generally turn around your nasty attitude.   His audio MP3's employ new age technologies like Relaxation therapy, Subliminal Affirmations and IsoChronic Brainwave Entrainment to help accelerate the process of internal mental re-framing and make deliberate personality change as effortless for you as possible.

How does it work?  By activating a recently discovered brain mechanism known as plasticity.  Basically it is the brain's ability to rewire itself.  The reason why you have trouble changing your beliefs and negative feelings about women is because over the years your brain has actually wired itself to make you good at fearing women.  It has become a habit that you are highly skilled at like driving your car.  The problem is that until now it has been impossible to rewire these negative habits, causing you to be stuck in your fears.

Using a breakthrough audio technology called IsoChronic Brainwave Entrainment we are finally able to safely re-wire these old negative habits with ease, enabling you to literally build new brain networks that will help you display a natural confidence around women.  This process is complemented with powerful NLP techniques and Subliminal Affirmations.

I commissioned Destin to create a companion self-hypnosis program called the NLP Attraction Accelerator.   This program is designed to implant high status male and "romance-positive" ideas into your noggin that will motivate you to out there gaming women with the kind of natural ease that gets the job done.

We made the NLP Attraction Accelerator an add-on item so you have the option of purchasing the ATS program with or without Destin's contribution... but DO have an open mind and give it a look before deciding, and I do thank you for that.

Dealing With Your Fear of Rejection

Dealing With Your Fear of Rejection is priced reasonably at $39.95 (sans the NLP Premium Upgrade, which is extra, details here).   Remember, my HSM-ATS will be an on-going SERIES of programs -- so check back to the site often and watch your inbox for more announcements as new titles are added.   I'm thinking now that I've got all the self-training and technical issues sorted out, I should be able to release 2-3 of these programs every year (as opposed to the 3 years that it typically takes me to write one of my King-Kong sized e-books!).   Programs will be based on topics drawn from my books and whatever else I can think of that relevant to The Cause.   I try not to over-hype my products and rip you off for more than they're worth, so future programs that are less elaborate or shorter in length should be accordingly priced lower.

Now, here's a short article by our featured guest writer Destin Lucas to give you some idea of what he's all about...

 

The Master Key
by Destin Lucas

Fear could very well be the most deadly of all diseases of the Soul.  It can mentally imprison you so that you cannot ‘live and be’ within your own body.  Research has shown that as much as 90% of emotional problems have their root in fear.   The good news is that it is actually possible to eliminate most of the irrational fear from your life and break its grip on your soul forever.   The trick is to understand how and why fear works.

To begin with, let's explore these two different types of fear:

Rational Fear
Irrational Fear

Rational Fear occurs when there is a genuine reason to be afraid.  You percieve some threat to your:

Emotional Safety
Physical Safety
Financial Safety
Reputation Safety
Etc.

Now the purpose of Rational Fear is to protect you from genuine danger, so Rational Fear isn’t always such a bad thing.   The secret to mastering Rational Fear is to take sensible precautions while focusing on a positive outcome.

The real killer of life and joy is Irrational Fear.   Often a person experiencing Irrational Fear will realize that there is no genuine danger present yet will still feel afraid regardless.   Because of this, Irrational Fear can make people act in ways that go counter to their goals and desires.   A person might flee from a perfectly good relationship or fail to pursue a business or job opportunity because they sense vague unknowns that create too much discomfort for them.   They never get to experience the wonder of life to it’s fullest.   Irrational Fear is truly the greatest thief there could ever be -- it steals away the vitality of life itself.

Fortunately there is a simple and highly effective remedy to this problem: if we can learn to recognize that a particular situation isn’t really dangerous, then we can force ourselves to understand the irrationality of the fear... and therefore its illusory nature.

Then we can then attack this fear with all our strength and put all of our power into facing it down!   You will soon come to feel an inner serenity -- free to ‘live and be’ and to 'love and play' and live the Dream within.   You will be free to soar as an eagle to heights higher than imagination... and Life will finally come ALIVE for you!

Key Principles

Be motivated by LOVE, not Fear...
If the Fear is Rational take sensible precautions focusing on a positive outcome
Face down all Irrational Fears!
90% of emotional issues are fear related -- if you have an emotional issue, fear is probably at the root...
Develop the habit of calmness... (J. Paul Getty)

Master Exercise

The following exercise will help you significantly reduce any fear you may be having. Make a list of your 3 greatest fears.   For each one of these ask the following questions:

(While you consider doing this exercise you might want to ask yourself... "Is my happiness worth the 15 min this exercise will take ?")

What is so dangerous about this ?
What evidence do I have to prove that this absolutely will happen ?
What evidence do I have to prove that this might not happen ?
What message is this fear trying to give me ?
What do I need to do about this ?
What can I learn from this situation, anyway ?
Who can I ask, or where can I read some info to improve my knowledge in this area ?
How and when am I going to face this fear ?

Now look at each one of these fears and ask yourself:
Is it rational or irrational?

For the rational ones, take whatever sensible precautions are necessary and expect success.   For the irrational ones, face them as you watch them disappear!

Repeat the exercise for anything that you ever feel afraid to do.  This could well be one of the most powerful transformational experiences of your life.