"One Simple Mental Trick
is all that stands between you and
a vast Wealth of Sexy Women.
Let me show you how it's done..."

    
       Hello my friend – Mike Pilinski, author of the semi-famous
seduction guide Without Embarrassment welcoming you to HighStatusMale.com.    I'm sure you'll have lots of fun poking around the site as I have many interesting toys in this attic.

But look, let's not bullshit around here... for a man, nothing sucks worse than being a low status male (LSM).   You know what I'm talking about right?... the kind of guy who gets kicked around and disrespected everywhere he goes... by other men, bullies, bosses and worst of all – women.   The LSM is at the bottom of the human social totem – his sorry lot is to serve and obey, to be the butt of cruel jokes, and ultimately to fall victim to life's meat grinder and pass away unrecognized and unthanked.

And what's the LSM's "reward" for his wretched life?   How about the slim pickin's he finds littering the bottom of the romantic food chain – the fat girls, the psychos and druggies?   Or maybe the divorced and bitter re-treads?   All the swill that life's high status males (HSM's) scraped off their plates and into the garbage pail!   And they laugh as they watch the losers fight each other for their scraps.   On the surface this situation must seem puzzling to an alien observer – why is this so?   Why such injustice?

Well, I'm sure you probably realize that one of the most critical aspects of character separating the men of the world into such striking divisions of winners and subservient losers is the heralded notion of confidence.   And I'm not just talking about psychobabble-type "self-confidence" here, but genuine, exquisite and powerful Confidence.

It's easy to see why the confident of the world have a leg up on the fearful (for want of a better term) – because they've learned to step up and step into the greatest moments of anxiety that life serves up to them... to go for that big job or military promotion, chase down the big stock gamble, take the river-raft ride down the Colorado or sign up for the skydiving trip...    Walk in and nail the bank loan needed to implement that great business idea, go for the high-pressure audition for the lead part in the movie or school play, apply to Top Gun training school...

     And... take that shot at the great looking blonde over there before she steps onto the subway train and disappears forever!

Stop and think about some of the truly confident people that you know in your life.   Consider how their daily experience differs from your own – how much all around better their world seems than yours.   And I mean everything, not just women but career, money, power, respect... all of it.   Now realize that most of that difference exists because those individuals made critical decisions at critical turning points in their life which you likely failed to do when faced with similar opportunities or challenges.

Your best buddy stepped up and took the college boards and ended up with a six figure job in the corporate world – while you were so sure you were going to bomb the test and make a fool of yourself that you decided to blow off college altogether and go to work siding houses for your uncle Al – and now 15 years later you're still at it for $8 bucks an hour.

     Critical decisions made at critical moments.

But imagine if things had been just a little different and instead of taking the safe and easy path at various pivotal moments in your life you'd chosen instead to step into your fears and stand up against your uncertainty and went for that brass ring?   What would your life look like right now do you think?   This can be tough to even contemplate I know.

But let's forget all that crap for now.  That's the past and the past is dead and gone forever (although it may've left behind quite a mess).  The way to begin turning things around for yourself from this moment on is to be ready to seize the NEXT great chance that comes your way in whatever aspect of life that it may next appear.  To take the bull by the horns this time!

 Imagine this... imagine how different your life today would be if...

• You could walk into the HR office of the dream company that you want to work for, ace the interview and get an awesome position that you've been chomping at the bit for all your life...
• Step up before a room of 200 tough customers and make a rockin' sales presentation...
• Try out for the varsity soccer or football team and get a spot on the roster (and maybe even a scholarship as well)...
• Stand up to the schoolyard bully and finally whip his cowardly ass...
• Walk up to the kind of girl whose smokin' good looks usually freeze other men in their tracks and pull a phone number out of her!...

Well, all these skills require one major ingredient which more than anything else defines the dominant, high status "alpha" male...

Confidence!

      Confidence... the Holy Grail of Men seeking elevated status – the single element more than anything else that draws a line between those group of men who rule their world and their diminished brothers who either follow along or learn to serve and obey.

More than anything else it is this quality within your consciousness that will direct the course of your life into greatness in every way you can imagine.   Or destroy it.   What is anyone's life after all if not a chain of pivotal moments that sneak up on you unexpectedly to become either the source of fond memories or nightmarish regrets?   How many such points can you look back on in your own life right now and lament as having been the wrong choices?   And how many of those would've benefited from an instant surge of confidence?

Tough to even think about I know, but DO stop and think about how many poor decisions in your life could be attributed to a lack of confidence being available to you at just the right moment...  An opportunity to make a move up the career ladder missed when you stammered through that interview, a chance to chat up some girl in a bar that your buddy later moved on and ended up marrying...

Like I mentioned before, it must seem odd to any visiting Martians why humans appear to be segregated from each other so wildly when it comes to something as fundamental as courage.   While this phenomenon isn't completely understood, I would imagine it's probably due to a mix of temperament plus a few random negative events happening early in your life which had some kind of suffocating impact on your natural risk-taking instincts.

And especially if a few of these bad breaks just by sheer bad luck happened to string themselves out in quick succession.

A bad run of social luck at some pivotal stage in your development might've driven you into a cowering, protective mode in order to survive.    This could've actually been a good thing at the time by protecting you from emotional pain or even very serious abuse.    The problem is that while these strategies may work to ‘save you' from whatever bad situation you were in initially, many of us make the critical mistake of holding onto these emotional crutches long past the point where they do us any good.    And very often to the point where they begin to harm us in ways that we would've never expected.

For instance, it was probably a reasonable strategy to play the fool in order to slip past the schoolyard bully so as not to have to surrender your lunch money every day, but now we're men and we need to stand up for ourselves.    We need to stop being doormats around other people that we regard as being stronger, richer, smarter or better looking than we are and start working to join their ranks instead!

While I was drifting through my own teenage years, little "flaws" accumulated in my consciousness that would set me off on a years-long path of frustration, confusion and anger.    In a strange way these flaws came to define my life, but not in the way that I would've liked.    No matter how much I tried to put myself into situations (school dances, bars, etc.) where it would've been possible to meet a girl, I just couldn't bring myself to walk up to one, open my mouth and start a conversation.    Whenever an opportunity to game some girl occurred in my world, I would rehearse dozens of opening lines in my head and then ruthlessly reject each one as ridiculous and stupid!    By the time I was through with these tortured mental gymnastics I had often over-thought myself into a complete state of social paralysis.

See, it becomes impossible to take action when the price of failure has been set so high in your mind that it completely obscures whatever rewards for success there could be!    The penalty for my failure (rejection) was relentless self-castigation and negative ruminations that would bounce around in my head for days and weeks afterward.    These thoughts were simply too painful to bear – and I soon became terrified of even triggering them into existence.    I thus learned to avoid all these types of situations and thus success soon became an impossible dream for me.    Being with a woman was something that happened to other people – it was no longer a part of the catalog of possibilities that existed... for me.

     I eventually closed the circle by becoming the very thing that I feared most – a social reject, isolated from my own peers.

I guess what I'm trying to tell you is that there's no reason to feel any shame about your current situation whatever it may be, since this entire state of consciousness can be a very slowly unfolding trap that's very easy to slip into.   Beware the black tentacles of shame!    Shame is a powerful "master controller" which many families, most religions, much of society (and even our very own twisted minds) use to keep us all walking a nice straight line throughout our lives.    But the price we pay for allowing this dark emotion guide us can be severe.

What if I could show you a laughably simple mental trick similar to what many athletes and actors use to get "up" for a game or performance, that could generate an instantaneous burst of confidence and power within you on demand?    And in real time too when you're out there in the field... precisely when you need it most!    Not afterwards in retrospect back in your lonely room when your rage at having missed out on the chance of a lifetime to do something that you desperately wanted to do is eating away at your soul... IN REAL TIME!

It works like this: imagine seeing a girl out somewhere that you would like to meet... closing your eyes, running a series of mental images that you will have thoroughly trained yourself to imagine in any high-pressure situation on a moment's notice... and then stepping up to her with the swagger of a fighter pilot who just pinned an F-14 tomcat onto the deck of an aircraft carrier... at night!    These powerful feelings, amazing as they may seem, merely represent specific sorts of emotional storms going on in the brain.    Possibly of a different sort than you may normally experience, but that doesn't mean that you can't train yourself to simulate these types of brainstorms in the virtual reality of your own head.    You most certainly can.

As far as brains are concerned, simulation and reality can become easily confused.   And that's the key to changing what we don't like about them!    If you've tried studying a lot of the "pick-up artist" (PUA) material that's out there (including some of my own) but continue to make very little progress because you still can't step up at the moment of truth and take action... then without a doubt Confidence is the X-factor that you are missing!

 

Yes I'm proud to introduce installment #2 in my growing audio library.   This new program will show you how to make a significant change in but one single core element of your character, namely, your confidence around women!   (Well, anybody you want to project confidence in front of actually, but for now we'll just focus on how it can help your game.)   The 18 day time frame suggested for spreading-out the lessons helps to create a gradual acceptance of new principles and prime directives within your unconscious mind which places this desired sensation of elevated confidence squarely where it belongs: deep into your instinctive brain.

See, KAC was developed not so much for guys of adequate PUA skill level, but more for the shy, reserved sort of guy.   You know... the one standing over there invisibly in the corner?    The guy everyone ignores.   You're the dude who REALLY needs to step onto the playing field of Life and grab your share of it.    And that's what this program is intended to help you achieve.

NOTE TO PUA's:  Even for you advanced players, it's possible to benefit from having more structure supporting how you operate.   KAC can especially improve things for anyone whose confidence tends to fade in-and-out by giving you a repeatable way to draw up your courage on demand whenever you need it.
And we all need it!

While the techniques I deliver in my books are certainly valuable, sometimes you really need a shock to the system to convince a stubborn habit like shyness that things will be different from now on.    You can create such a nasty shock by embracing any sort of process which clearly demonstrates to the unconscious portion of your brain any ability to do something that it has become otherwise convinced is impossible, FOR YOU.

     KAC will provide you with exactly this sort of "brain re-awakening" self-demonstration... which may end up being more valuable to you than the actual technique itself!    I'm sure you must realize that we are restricted in what we can accomplish in life by the unconscious assumptions of our minds.    Change those assumptions, change your life.   Right?

Anyway, since we're attempting some rather significant (i.e. scary) 'attitude-adjusting' here, your unconscious mind will likely attempt to stop all efforts to correct it by bombing you with waves of alternating fear and logic-based cynicism.   But the very gradual induction process that I've designed for the Kick Ass Confidence program will tip-toe you around all this typical mental resistance by failing to even provoke it in the first place.   It does this by breaking up the overall learning process into smaller episodes and having you focus at becoming skilled at just one aspect of the process at a time.   This avoids triggering all those deadly "I can't do this..." self-defeating thoughts of overwhelm that so often block progress in personal self-development.

The KAC program begins with mental exercises that you perform internally in the quiet space of your own mind, and progresses into real world demonstrations of actual courage around actual women.   Yikes!   Each lesson builds upon the last one by creating a calming feeling of progress that's designed to keep you from bailing out midway through the process.    The idea is to very gently convince your instincts that something which it "knows" about you (i.e. that you have zero confidence around women!) is actually incorrect – and that now it has to re-adjust itself and begin to "understand" something entirely new and completely the opposite about you.

Fortunately, "unconscious minds" are easy to trick if you go after them a certain way.   I'll show you how to create a little feedback loop that will easily convince your own unconscious of this upgraded reality using little effort.    With just some specific knowledge and a little brief practice you will soon be demonstrating to yourself the ability to re-arrange the neural pathways within your crusty old brain!    No need to "Will" yourself into changing anything either (as if that worked anyway).

It's like asking a 300 pound overweight guy – not to wrap his mind around the idea of losing 100 pounds – but just to think about shedding ONE single pound per day over 3 days by using a light 10 minute daily exercising regime.

Three pounds, 10 minutes a day.   Three days.

What good does losing a lousy 3 pounds do for a guy that big you ask?   The purpose is not to lose any significant weight but to challenge this guy's deeply held "I-can-never-lose-ANY-weight" unconscious CERTAINTY with some conflicting new knowledge that in fact he CAN lose a steady amount of weight if he would just attack the issue a little bit at a time.

See, he needs to demonstrate to his own disbelieving Self that it's possible to lose weight.   That it's possible – not for some muscle guy on TV, but for HIM.   This is a bigger deal than you might think because exercises of the consciousness such as these will begin to break down the "victim mentality" that is so poisonous to so many of us... this pervasive notion that we are somehow victims of forces beyond our control – luck, genetics, parents, authorities, bosses... whatever.

That WE are not in control of our lives, but somehow "they" all are!

Once your unconscious mind has been forced to cross this sort of mental Rubicon it can no longer honestly continue to make the case that you "can't" lose weight any more – from now on you'll have to admit to yourself that you won't lose weight.   Now your lack of control over a personal failing has gone from some condition "imposed" upon you by an outside force (genetics) to being one that's suddenly based upon an executive decision that you've made with your rational mind!

     But wait... that's no fun!   Willful choices are not grounds for others to feel sorry for us – or for us to feel sorry for ourselves.   It robs us of that warm and fuzzy victim status that we so love to wrap ourselves up in!    See how these misguided internal tap-dances can hold us down in the gutter all our lives?

Let me tell you, getting beyond this immature crap is the only thing that stands between you and what could be your rapidly fading dreams.    Don't let your own social life become a victim to disempowering, entrenched thinking patterns.    Let me show you how a simple mental trick can become the key to setting your long-silenced dreams of complete social confidence free at last!

 

 

 

 

 

Well then, I guess this is the part where I get to toss in a few delightful free bonuses. How about these...

     Bonus #1: For the first time in your life you'll be able to grab your world by the balls and make it serve up exactly what you want.

     Bonus #2: See bonus #1 above.

Just kidding.    Seriously, I'm available for one entire year of e-mail consultation to all my buyers.    That means you can write me about your problems, with your questions, dilemmas... or just to crow about your successes scoring women if you want to.   No rules.   Along with this personal e-mail consultation I'll even throw in my phone number so you can call me anytime within a year of purchase and go "brain-to-brain" with me for up to an hour.    I'll try to answer your questions and help you figure out a solution to whatever problems you're having with women, shyness, etc.

The full extent of my vast "wisdom" will be at your service ;-)

You'll get all this information at the time you download the product.    This is my true, no bullshit bonus.


     P.S.  In order to be genuinely confident as a force of personality, you need to possess a solid internal belief in your ability to overcome the external pressure that comes from other people – and even to ultimately bend them to your Will.    This type of personality posture requires constant positive encouragement, and if you don't have anyone in your life who acts as your coach or mentor then you must learn how to do it yourself.    This is known as being self-actualized.    Self-actualization is an important step in the process of maturity, but it does NOT necessarily appear just because you've managed to tuck a few years under your belt.    How many middle-aged men do you know who are total ego-maniacs, constant worriers, fearful and uncertain, adverse to new ideas, self-proclaimed victims of bad fortune, passive-aggressive or self-pitying monsters?    Do they ever change?

What I'm saying is that you can't wait around for confidence or courage to just magically appear in your heart one day simply because you hung around long enough for it to happen – you've got to go out there and make it happen.    This is your chance to make it happen...   Right now.