by Michael Pilinski
252 pages
(e-book - softcover - Kindle)
Imagine being able to walk right up to the prettiest woman in a nightclub, classroom or out in the street and begin a cool, calm, flirtatious and exciting conversation with her that will have her laughing and joking around with you in seconds, handing over her phone number in minutes, and leaving you feeling like a million bucks for the rest of the day.
Now imagine being able to pull this off without any paralyzing fear of rejection, without any shame or uncertainty, and most of all...
... Without any embarrassment!
Fear of being rejected by a woman is a terrible social handicap that haunts a surprisingly large number of men. Deeply hidden feelings of inadequacy and low self-worth that surface at the worst possible moment can make it impossible to think, talk, act and sometimes even MOVE when an opportunity to socialize with an attractive woman presents itself.
This kind of relentless failure is not without consequence, it grinds on you until it eventually begins to drag down all the other aspects of your life as well. You start to get boxed-out of social events... people "forget" to invite you to parties because you're "that guy" who never brings a date... or maybe because your social awkwardness or inappropriate behavior makes them uncomfortable. This poison can even spread throughout your business and professional life and diminish your ability to network and create opportunities for advancement.
And it gets really tiresome always having to put on the "happy clown" mask to hide all this misery.
Well screw all that. My book Without Embarrassment will show you how to turn your personal life around by demonstrating how to understand and ultimately correct the misguided self-destructive beliefs that have been blocking you both socially and romantically:
* Imagine walking around getting signals of interest from women everywhere that you go instead of always being the 'invisible man' at every social event...
* Imagine gaining the respect and camaraderie of other men as their regard for you goes up along with your steadily improving Male Status...
* Imagine having your opinions and ideas listened to instead of routinely ignored...
* Imagine being able to reach out and fully accept the affection of a woman, WITHOUT FEELING ANY SHAME...
* Now imagine being able to do all of this naturally and easily without any FEAR OF REJECTION...
This is what raising your male status -- even just slightly -- can do for you. You'll discover how minor changes in the way that you carry yourself and your attitude can make an enormous difference in the way that people will regard you. Your male status as viewed by others is the central most important element that dictates just what sort of day-to-day experiences you will generally have in your life: happy and satisfying... or frustrating and enraging.
Without Embarrassment lays out step-by-step how to develop a casual, seductive personality for yourself that an amazing number of women will find magnetic. You'll discover clever psychological tactics will improve your odds of successfully making emotional connections with women at every step along the path of courtship and seduction: from the moment that a girl first catches your eye, to the thrill of winning her heart and ultimately bedding her.
But don't take my word for it, try some of this HSM mojo out for yourself right now: here's a cool technique that I pulled from pg. 58 of the book called "The Handshake Trick" which you can test-fire tonight out at the bar. This move is absolutely perfect to use in formal situations like business meetings or social get-togethers as well, because it's a perfectly acceptable yet "sly" way to flirt with a woman in a very subtle 1-to-1 manner where only you and her know what's going on... even in a crowded room! More importantly, it establishes a "beyond just friends" type of interest in her IMMEDIATELY from the very first instant that you meet her -- which is crucial in setting the stage for any future attempts to hook up with her:
(excerpted from Without Embarrassment, page 58)
In situations where you're being formally introduced or performing a self-introduction, you will often have an opportunity to shake a woman's hand. There's a right way and a wrong way to do this. Assuming that she's foxy and worth a move, here's the right way: first, make sure that your hand fully engages hers until the webs between your thumbs and index fingers touch. No wimpy, "finger-gripper" handshakes allowed! Grasp firmly, but don't squeeze hard (like you would do with a guy in a "I-vill-crush-your-puny-girly-man-hand" handshake competition, right?). We're looking to finesse a little balance here.
Alright then, moving very subtly, all the while maintaining solid eye contact, turn your hand very slowly and slightly in a clockwise direction (to the right) so that her hand is above yours with your palm turned upwards (instead of side-by-side vertically the way you would normally shake hands). Hold on gently for a few seconds, then release your grip on her hand... but don't withdraw it, just freeze in that position. Let her break contact first while you remain perfectly still.
Don't be surprised if she doesn't take her hand away immediately, but just stands there mesmerized with a great smile and direct eye contact (which you should be mirroring right back at her!) This sounds silly but it can create an electric "chemistry" type of moment for the both of you which can then be taken a step further by asking her out... simply as a natural extension of this one cool "moment" that you've had with her - which you artificially manufactured with a little bit of thoughtful action on your part!
Why women get all turned-on by this move I don't know, but I suspect that it has something to do with the way in which the Shining Knight takes hold of the Maiden's hand before kissing it (her hand above his, knuckles up). It's vaguely fantasy-like and certainly intriguing, and most importantly, puts you in an immediate positive light that separates you from all the other forgettable schmucks that she's met today, who either gave her a 'squishy fishy' or the 'bone-crusher' greeting.
See how you've got to be thinking all the time in order to play the game like a pro? A seduction must be built brick-by-brick... and always think of that very first brick you lay, your first impression as being the all-important cornerstone. Remember, first impressions have nuclear importance when it comes to meeting and ultimately engaging women. If you start out wrong with them, you are rarely able to recover without a huge effort.
The Handshake Trick is perfect to use anywhere you can find an appropriate and reasonable way to shake a woman's hand. Try it for yourself. Here's a letter from a surprised and satisfied fan:
Hey Mike, I tried that handshake trick that you described in Without Embarrassment and damn, IT WORKS! I was dancing at this place called the Rockin' Rodeo (Tempe, AZ) with a teacher who was visiting from Georgia (tons of teachers visit here during the two-week Xmas vacation). She introduced me to her mom, who was very good-looking. I used that handshake on her, and even though mom’s boyfriend was standing right there, she kept her hand right on mine long after I had released hers, just like you said she would!
It was almost like she was hypnotized or something. It was all I could do to keep from saying out loud: "Man, this shit really works!"
Chip
(5 days later...)
Mike, I’m 2-for-2 with your handshake technique! Last night I had a first date with a woman that I met last week. We met at a little R&B lounge so we could talk, and when I greeted her I used the handshake trick again, and she did NOT move her hand away an inch! She just kept hers right on top of mine, just like that other woman that I met at the Rockin' Rodeo did last week. She looked like she was in a trance too. Close dancing and an excellent goodnight kiss almost seemed like they were automatic from that point on. Nice trick there buddy, a small price to pay for something that works like Love Potion #9!
Chip
In my book you will also learn some really eye-opening facts about the potentially poisonous effect on your personality of something called toxic shame. This is a mostly-subconscious psychological issue that makes it difficult for many men to connect with and accept the love and affection of a woman. Toxic shame created a disastrous internal belief system in me that ruined the best social years of my life until I accidentally discovered that it even existed.
I then began taking steps to eliminate this monster from my consciousness, which took some time, but was ultimately successful. I'll explain what toxic shame is all about and how I began to clear it out of my skull by using some simple NLP (neuro linguistic programming) methods to generate "synthetic confidence". This helped me get over the hump until my self esteem began to improve naturally on its own in lockstep with my growing male status.
I've also since developed several low-pressure methods for attracting the attention of women in a very subtle, subconscious manner. Techniques such as these make it extremely safe even for the guy who is very shy around women to operate with a quiet, powerful confidence that gets you noticed and buys you a chance to make a move here and there. What else can any of us ask for realistically?
You'll learn how to make fantastic first impressions that will instantly draw positive feedback... converse with a purpose to get the date or phone number that you're seeking... know when to say exactly the right thing at the right moment, etc. etc.
You'll even learn how to get a chick daydreaming about you when you're not around her! Powerful stuff.
Additional subjects covered in Without Embarrassment include: creating your own personal charisma, the dilemma of the nice guy, generating instant rapport by viewing the movement of a girl's eyes to determine if she's a visual, audio or kinesthetic thinker, and then quietly matching up with it ...knowing how and when to escalate romantically and to deliver a knockout first kiss, delivering on her 4 primary emotional needs, finding a girl that will deliver on YOUR primary emotional needs in order to create satisfying long term relationships, getting a woman addicted to you... etc. etc.
There's also a fictional pickup story called Cayman Magic in the back of the book that is dissected for all its various lessons, plus the fun and fantastic 25 question Dominant Male Test where you will create a psychological self-evaluation to pinpoint your own current male status -- so you will know exactly where your personality and game could currently stand some improvement.
...and on and on.
BOTTOM LINE: Without Embarrassment is a textbook for turning your love life around -- along with a social reference bible that you will keep referring back to again and again for years to come.
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Hi Mike, I just came across your Facebook page. Some time ago I bought your book Without Embarrassment and it effected me so deeply that I wanted to take a moment to thank you personally for turning my life around. Until that time, I thought this fear of social embarrassment and fear of approaching women was something that only "I" had -- because people who have these fears tend to keep them all to themselves. When I was reading your book I almost cried, your book really touched some deeper part of my soul that was hidden in the VERY deep darkness.
~ Emre Poyraz (from Turkey)
I just wanted to thank you from the bottom of my heart for writing this book. It has given me a new found optimism that I will soon be having satisfying relationships based on how much more confident with women that I now find myself to be. I’m 28, and the lack of women in my life has taken a severe toll on my emotional well being. It made me spend what should have been the best years of my life in serious despair. There are a lot of lonely people like me in this world and what you are doing to help us is very needed and appreciated. I honestly feel the decision to purchase your book may have saved my life. Thank You Mr Pilinski!
~ Ray Masters
Your humorous delivery and crisp writing style make your books the most enjoyable e-books I've ever encountered. I've seen many different authors on TV droning on about their "great" books (many of which I've actually read) which can't hold a candle to your materials. I found myself being pulled magnetically from page to page and ended up reading 40 and 50 page blocks of Without Embarrassment at a time -- hardly without realizing it! Based on the impressive knowledge about this subject that you bring to the table and your precise and entertaining presentation of it, I don't understand why you aren't more famous and well known than you seem to be. You need a better agent!
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Hi Mike, I am quite an intelligent guy: 169 IQ, 1510 SAT, MENSA member (not to brag ;-) and I must say that I found your book immensely enlightening and insightful much on the same scale that I found physics books such as Steven Hawking's A Brief History of Time, Feyman's Quantum ElectroDynamics and Lederman's The God Particle highly thought-provoking. I was humbled by your intellect and your knowledge of this material on a MASSIVE scale. You Sir are "THE MAN"
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by Mike Pilinski
281 pages
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The problem of finding quality women can be a real dilemma for a lot of men, harder than finding a decent apartment or scoring a great job. That's because what you actually need to do is forget about approaching this issue like some kind of high pressure moon mission and begin making the seduction of women a lifestyle for yourself.
My new book She's Yours For The Taking casts a somewhat wider net than Without Embarrassment -- bringing together all of the best tactical tricks that I stumbled across during my many struggles in the dating field. This book is all about knowing what's really important to understand about women... from solid and realistic ways to approach them "cold"... to rocking their erotic world... and everything in between.
And while dating itself may not always be the nerve-wracking experience that trying to actually meet a woman can be for a lot of men, it's the ONE place where your big dreams can easily get shipwrecked by just a few innocent mistakes. As a man, you need to have a strategy to meet the type of sexy girl that YOU find desirable, and a solid plan for how to navigate those first few highly-critical dates with her.
It sure would be nice to have a set of instructions to guide you through this crazy maze, wouldn't it?
Well, She's Yours For The Taking can serve this purpose for you in more ways than you can imagine. The methods in this book go far beyond the typical worthless junk you see out there like trying to put yourself over with cutesy texts or some goofy online dating hacks -- we're talking about making face-to-face PSYCHOLOGICALLY EFFECTIVE moves on women in everyday real life situations. Such genuine chances represent golden opportunities for us because the usual bullshit guards that chicks throw up in environments like nightclubs are nowhere to be found -- setting up the perfect platform for you to be clever and confident when they least expect it (which doubles the impact BTW, because your approach comes off as being completely genuine as well as a window into your elevated male status... love it! ;-)
The centerpiece of SYFT is a very low-pressure cold-meeting move called Pull Tabbing. Forget about all this flying-by-the-seat-of-your-pants nonsense... pull tabbing will equip you with pre-scripted routines for meeting women that can be locked away in your head all ready to go at a moment's notice. Now you'll actually be able to do something about those kick-yourself-in-the-ass, "gotcha" chances to meet women that we all stumble across from time-to-time. You know what I'm talking about right?... how that perfect moment to impress some cute chick at the mall or in class always seems to pop-up when you're totally unprepared and your mind is devoid of anything even remotely intelligent to say? I hate it when that happens! Pull tabbing eliminates this problem once and for all.
As a man, you need to be naturally and consistently confident with women in order to place them under your romantic spell. And like I said, this would include everything from a strategy to meet the type of woman that YOU find desirable, to navigating through those highly-critical first 3 dates with her (what I call the 'Three Date Master Seduction'). I devote entire chapters to studying each of these 3 dates: Action, Connecting & Romance - and show you how to design each one to lure her deeper and deeper into your seductive web. All this knowledge comprises the genuine secrets to attracting women that will serve you for a lifetime.
Let's face it... it's tough to know exactly how to act around any particular woman in order to get her to dig us. In our desperation we sometimes try to be too many things -- a nice guy, but not too nice, a steadfast guy who tries to demonstrate that he takes no BS from women... then blows everything up by provoking an argument with her... etc. etc.
She's Yours presents dozens of ideas, scripts and strategies that will help you get through this social minefield. Let it become your #1 reference source for solving all the most vexing problems that you're ever likely to have with women -- from meeting and dating, to ultimately seducing them just the way that they love it...
...and with paint-by-numbers ease.
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Mike, I am truly impressed with the insights you possess in regards to the whole male-female relationship thing. The past few weeks have been an incredible confidence boost for me. At the bars, I’m concentrating on displaying a high status male aura and dear lord... it absolutely works!
~ Bob W.
Just last night I was at the bar with a few friends and, after walking over to put a few quarters on the pool table, I turned around to find a nice looking blonde with her hand outstretched offering me her name, and asking me for mine! I did a pull tab like you described in your book, and I'll tell you I could see in her eyes that she was into me, it was like I was the only person in her world at that moment. It has been a long time since something like that has happened to me! It gave me a big feeling of crazy confidence that made me feel like I could take on the whole bar! Your high status methods totally rock out buddy! ;-)
~ Mike T.
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