PUA Resources
For Boosting Both Your Inner and Sexual Games

    More interesting stuff for you to peruse on this latest of my PUA Resources Pages.   I always like to start by recommending a book that sits on my very own bookshelf here at home, something that produced a life-changing shift in my thinking and attitudes about myself and other people, and that helped me on my journey to sanity.   These books can usually be found on Amazon.com, so I root out the listing for you -- and then I also provide an ISBN number if you would prefer to hunt the book down at your local bookstore or library.

    These Amazon listings are all gratis and I make no commissions on them.   The important thing is that I spread the word about these great books that will help get your head unscrewed!

    Also don't forget that my own book Without Embarrassment can be had in print right here as well (cheap plug ;-)

    Finally, please feel free to drop me an e-mail if you would like me to review your product for inclusion in these PUA Resource pages.   Any items related to helping men improve their look, style, alpha male attitude or their opportunity to meet hot women will be considered.   I'm also looking for self-help products that deal with overcoming shyness and social anxiety.  Your help is much appreciated!

Mike Pilinski
Seduction & Dating Author

 

Self-Defeating Behaviors

Free Yourself from the Bad Habits, Compulsions,
Feelings, and Attitudes That Hold You Back

  By Milton Cudney, PhD & Robert Hardy, EdD
ISBN: 0-06-250197-6

We are each of us presented with a continuous stream of new moments in life, moments in which we are called upon to exercise choices.   Each of these choices can either lead to a Self-Defeating Behavior or to a more positve behavior that affirms and honors our existance.

This book from 1990 will give you terrific insights into how Self-Defeating Behavior's are created in our lives -- usually based upon faulty conclusions that we developed about ourselves and our relationships in the past -- and how these nasty bad habits keep going round and round to prevent us from ever making any real progress.   These behaviors originated as reasonable defenses against fearful threats or painful emotional situations in our early life and then continue grinding along far beyond the point where they've outlive their usefulness.

Cudney and Hardy, practicing psychologists, offer a thorough explanation of those attitudes and actions that may have worked for us at one time, but ultimately cycle into adult behaviors that backfire.   Self-defeatists, they claim, harbor mythical fears that stifle creative thought.   This causes faulty conclusions which continue to perpetuate the destructive cycle.   SDB's are the mechanics of behavior through which our toxic shame and self-hatred express themselves.

        (Review posted by an Amazon.com customer)

What is your life like?   Is it a relentless procession of empty days, an endless cycle of meaningless, frustrating work and unrelaxing sleep?   Do you repeat the same pattern of joyless days and empty nights ad nauseam?   Has your life become an arduous and repetitive ordeal?   Are you acting on misguided choices, doing and saying things that virtually guarantee dissatisfaction and unhapppiness?

If you answered "Yes" (or even "maybe") to any of those questions, have I got good news for you... this is the best book I have seen that specifically addresses how we can reclaim our mental, emotional and spiritual power from the traps we ourselves have built.   Self-Defeating Behaviors is a truly phenomenal work.

(If this link doesn't work outside the U.S., just go to Amazon.com and search out the title and author.   I've also provided the ISBN number if you wish to order the book at your local bookstore.)   Go to Amazon


Blissnosis

The Blissnosis Method
  By Jesse Charger

Blissnosis is a novel and very cool new relationship networking system for meeting women that goes way beyond the idea of cold approaching women on the street, by opening up an opportunity for you to create tight, circular social networks with women in a party atmosphere... women, BTW, that can be far hotter than those you would typically meet in a bar or traditional nightclub.   Why?   Because parties bring out the pretty "wallflowers" that often don't go out a lot to bars, because all they meet is f***in' drunks.

Blissnosis is an idea that transcends ordinary meeting and dating by striving to create a situation where your social experiences have a chance to build upon one another in a closed environment, allowing your opportunities to meet more and more women to increase as you become immersed deeper and deeper into the Blissnosis "scene" and your juice as an "insider" attracts more and more women into your circle.

How to "break into" a bliss party?   You will see how simple it can be to get any girl that you know (even your sister!) to act as your "Starlight Girl" and become your instant social-proofing ticket to scoring loads of action at exclusive bliss parties.

The Bliss Party concept has been amazing to watch grow in popularity.   Think about creating a circle of wickedly cool girls that can be yours for fun and play WITHOUT having to mess around with any rejection, jealousy, or drama.   Let's face it, cold approaching women in bars is stressful, takes a thick skin and takes up loads of your time and money.   The Blissnosis Lifestyle is all about building you a brand new social life... the right way!

Watch this 20 minute video and learn all about The Blissnosis Method direct from creator Jesse Charger right now.

Also take a look at this guest article "Where to Find the Hottest Girls and Perfect 10's" by Jesse right here


Successful Seduction

Learning How To Talk To Women Romantically
  By Clark Cassidy

Successful Seduction is a terrific new guide that lays out a virtual King's banquet of different conversational gambits, ideas and techniques that are designed to help you fearlessly open up conversations with women -- in almost any situation imaginable -- and then keep them going.

I'm talking about focused, purposeful conversations that are designed to make memorable first impressions on girls with the idea of getting a serious flirt going that can create immediate chemistry.   From there Clark shows you how to score a phone number or even a quick trip back to her place!   THAT's how powerful mere words can be if you know how to apply them correctly.

Just check out some of these highlights from Clark Cassidy's book:

A proven step-by-step formula for starting conversations with women in most popular situations... you'll never have to use the old “I don’t know what to say...” excuse again!

How to keep a conversation going with a girl and avoid awkward silences … (you'll never run out of things to say, or allow the conversation to get boring again)...

The exact clothes to wear at bars, clubs and parties that makes me stand out from all the other guys...

A fun and easy way to meet women at the shopping mall without any of the usual anxiety (this technique works great in ALL daytime situations)...

The exact, word-for-word conversational starter that I used to meet a GORGEOUS blonde girl at the University... and then walk away with her phone number just 5 minutes later!...

Cassidy's system also comes bundled with a ton of great bonus books on Body language, The Psychology of Attraction, The Female Orgasm, Escaping the Friend Zone and more.

Give Successful Seduction a look right here:


Power Lovemaking

The Art of Hypersexual Pleasure
  By Michael Jerrad

Power LoveMaking was written in the early 90's when "outercourse" was coming into style among the party crowd as a way to fight back against the grim threat of AIDS.   This book is not just some worn out old "positions" guide... it's a fascinating education in extraordinary stimulation techniques that are designed to bring both men and women to very unique kinds of psycho-sexual peak states.

There is vast capability for extreme pleasure that lies largely untapped within our physical bodies.   These are known as "hypersexual" states, which are characterized by elevated pleasure sensations rarely experienced by the majority of ordinary people... either due to guilt, trepidation, or most often, mere ignorance.   Now you can rise above those sweaty uninformed masses and lift both your own and your partner's sexual experiences to another level entirely.   Fantastic, edgy stuff for the adventurous only!

Not an e-book, a concise 40 page printed book for only $16.95 + shipping, sold through Paypal.   Order Now:

Read the complete Table of Contents

Lick By Lick

How to Go Down on a Woman and Have Her Begging for More
  By Michael Webb

With over 6,000 sensitive nerve endings packed into the clitoris, it behooves you as a Master Seducer to understand exactly what the hell you're doing down there so that you don't come across as a rank amateur and ruin your reputation with every fresh conquest.

To be honest, at first glance I thought that a book about going down on women would be pretty lame.   I mean, you just spell out the alphabet and things usually take care of themselves, right?   Well I suppose that's okay... for an 8th grader.   But comon, Mike Webb's right... as men we need to show a little more Oral Game than that!   And this book has a lot of cool ideas about how to launch any woman (even the tough cases) into orbit with just the tip of your tongue... along with the precise details on how to apply them properly.   You can never have enough tricks in the 'ol sex bag my friend.

Also don't forget that women watch lots of porn nowadays, and they see the pros in action!   Nuff said.

I was also fairly impressed with the way in which several side issues about oral sex were covered in Lick-by-Lick, including how to get a woman to relax and become less uptight about the whole thing.   There were also some excellent ideas for all you fans of the "bald eagle" about how to go about casually suggesting that she could use a little shave down there (and guess who gets to be the barber? ;-)

A couple of years ago I actually ended up with a girl that had some major crotch rotch going on -- enough that I couldn't even force myself to attempt going down on her... yikes!   I never really figured out a delicate way to bring up the subject with her either, so it eventually turned out to be a deal breaker (although she never actually knew that, I was too chicken to ever tell her!).   Anyway, I wish I would've read this book back then as it has a few classy "work-arounds" for this particular problem that I sure could've used (the shaving alone would helped a lot, as it turns out that the hair traps a majority of the stink).   Oh well.

Remember, it's your creative sexual skills as expressed in how well you can play a woman's body like a fine instrument that ultimately "sets the hook" in any seduction.   Learn more on Mike Webb's site right here if you're interested in knowing more about this subject.


 

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