By John Bradshaw
ISBN: 0-932194-86-9

The book that changed my life.   And saved it!   This is John Bradshaw's brilliant dissection of the little known source of dozens of different neuroses and addictions,toxic shame.   It's the same book that I recommend to all my readers of Without Embarrassment.

When I first heard about the concept of toxic shame, it absolutely blew me away.   It turns out that shame is society's 'master controller' emotion -- but when it blows a fuse and becomes entangled with all sorts of natural and normal human emotions that require expression (i.e., the need for love, etc.) it can quickly lock you up in a straitjacket fears and anxieties.   These will make it impossible to function both socially and on many other levels as well.   Here lies the breeding ground of ALL addictions -- both chemical (drugs, alcohol addiction, food), physical (workaholism, obsessive hobbies, reckless behaviors), and emotional (rage, sadness, endless rumination and worry).   Reading this book challenged me to understand for the first time ever how my own needs for affection had become completely blocked and shut off.

John himself almost died of alcohol poisoning after a bad drinking binge, and his inward journey to uncover the elements of shame that had been transferred to him as a confused child from a neglecting father is stunning and will surprise you.

He actually has a series of books available now depicting various different aspects of how toxic shame is passed along within families in the form of "dark secrets"... and how it's our duty to break this generation-to-generation cycle of misery in our own lives and families.   Your own problems with women are likely only the tip of an iceberg of shame that has to be examined and held up to the light of knowledge.

(If this link doesn't work outside the U.S., just go to Amazon.com and search out the title and author.   I've also provided the ISBN number if you wish to order the book at your local bookstore.)   Go to Amazon

Secret Methods for Picking Up the Hottest
Women on Facebook or MySpace
  By Derek Lamont

As I'm sure you must know, social networking sites like Facebook aren't just
"nerd clubs" anymore... there are loads of sexy young women hanging out on these systems now, and you should be handing out cyber business cards.   Not only is the universe of social networking getting bloated, Facebook's growth rate alone has been nothing short of ridiculous.  Get a load of some of these current stats that I dug up for 2010:

1) The 35-54 year old demo is growing fastest, with a 276.4% growth rate
     in the past 12 months...
2) The 55+ demo is not far behind with a 194.3% growth rate...
3) The 25-34 year population on Facebook is doubling every 6 months...
4) There are more females (55.7%) than males (42.2%) on Facebook...
5) The largest demographic concentration remains the college crowd of 18-24
     year olds (40.8%)...

Did you see that?... the 25-34 age bracket is DOUBLING in size every 6 months!...  To me that looks like an ever-expanding barrel of sexy new fish!

And here's the best part... if you know what you’re doing AND you set up your Facebook or MySpace profile properly, hooking up with hot young women on these sites can be as easy as falling off a fence.

Maybe more like falling into an ever-growing sea of hot chicks!

Derek Lamont's Online Game will show you precisely how to make all this work for yourself without any danger of getting clowned-out or being blocked as a pervert.   Hey, the laws of romantic attraction may still be the same, but there's a far easier way to put them into play nowadays... if you know what you're doing.   The Online Game is a complete multimedia training system in this regard -- books, audios and video -- that are designed to bring you up to speed on the latest methods guys are already using to arrange hook ups via instant messenger, webcams and even by phone on Facebook and off similar social websites.

Unlike some of the other junk that you may've seen out there, this isn't just a collection of worn-out, over-used stock messages.   Is it profile content tips you're looking for?    Messaging strategies?    Instant-messaging conversation pointers?   Phone conversation techniques?   Derek will show you how to create custom profiles and messages that are tailored EXACTLY to your own personality in order to improve your chances of hooking up with the kind of women that YOU will like, and who will dig you as well.

This product also has a $4.95 Trial Sign-up deal for the complete package, so you can check out the whole system without risking a penny (this is NOT something that you can find everywhere).   This important fact bumps The Online Game up from four to five stars, so please do give it a look.

You can also download this terrific 26 page preview book, "The Facebook Pickup Method", to get a better idea of what this terrific system is all about (lots of sexy photos inside as well ;-).

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Have you guys heard about this Unbreakable program yet?  There's something really amazing going on in the PUA field nowadays.   A lot of these newer guys have run a complete "end-around" my own little universe, with training concepts that are a totally different sort of animal.

For instance, give this attitude-reconstructing system a quick look for yourself and see what you think... just about everything imaginable that you'd ever need or even care to know about the subject of gaming women has been conceptualized to a tee and presented in a streamlined presentation that makes everything a snap to absorb.

I'll tell you, anyone walking around nowadays who's totally clueless like I was back when I was 22 years old has only themselves to blame for it.   There is so much great material out there for getting yourself schooled-up to perfection when it comes to women -- and it's so easy to do all this in complete privacy now where you don't have to be embarrassed about your current level of social ineptitude.

Just give Unbreakable a look, I think you'll be amazed.