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Without Embarrassment has been called one of the most important books ever published in the men's dating market. It addresses the internalized shame and other toxic psychological issues that trap men in shyness and socially awkward behaviors which keep them isolated and alone.
This book delivers a potent strategy to set you on the path to social recovery, taking you on an internal journey of self-investigation that lays open a complete understanding of the roots of your frustration at trying to connect with women. It delivers real-life tactics, dialogs, and strategies to help get you past all these problems.
Think about being able to walk right up to the prettiest woman in a nightclub, classroom or even in the street and engage her in a cool, flirtatious conversation... one that will have her laughing and joking around with you in seconds, handing over her phone number in minutes, and leaving you feeling like a million bucks for the rest of your life.
Now imagine being able to pull this off without any paralyzing fear of rejection - without any shame or uncertainty, and most of all...
... without any embarrassment!
That's what this book is about.
Fear of Rejection... Rejected!
Fear of being rejected by a woman is a terrible social handicap that haunts a surprisingly large number of men. Deeply hidden feelings of inadequacy that surface at the worst possible moment can make it impossible to think, talk, act and sometimes even MOVE when an opportunity to socialize with an attractive woman presents itself.
This kind of relentless failure is not without its' consequence it grinds on you until it begins to drag down all other aspects of your life. You begin to get left out of social events... people "forget" to invite you to parties because you're "that guy" who never brings a date. Or maybe it's because your social awkwardness and inappropriate behavior makes them feel uncomfortable when you're around.
This book addresses the misguided unconscious beliefs that have been creating all these painful moments and blocking your progress in life. It lays out a step-by-step process to develop a casual, seductive personality for yourself that an amazing number of women will find attractive and interesting. You'll discover clever psychological tactics that will improve your odds of successfully making connections with women at every step along the path from courtship to seduction: from the moment that a girl first catches your eye, to the thrill of winning her heart... and ultimately bedding her.
Imagine walking around getting solid signs of interest from women, instead of always being the invisible man. Imagine how much easier it will make your life. Who fears a slam dunk?
Imagine gaining the respect and camaraderie of other men as their regard for you improves as well...
Imagine having your opinions and ideas listened to instead of ignored...
Imagine being able to reach out and accept the affection of a woman without feeling ashamed about it...
Now imagine being able to do all of this naturally without any fear of rejection stopping you...
Toxic Shame: The Male Confidence Assassin
You'll learn some incredible facts about the poisonous effect that something called toxic shame could be having on your personality. Internalized shame is a subconscious issue that manifests itself in ways that can make it difficult to be social and connect women. Toxic shame created a disastrous internal belief system in myself that ruined the best years of my life... until I accidentally discovered that it even existed when I was in my early forties, and by sheer accident.
I then took steps to eliminate this beast from my consciousness. It took me some time to figure out what was going on, but I was (about 90%) successful. Like breaking any addictive behavior, there will be relapses. No big deal. I'll show you how all that works, explain what toxic shame is and lay out the specific steps that I took clear this garbage out of my head.
As part of my own growth process, I developed sneaky and clever methods to attract the attention of women, but in a very subtle manner that allowed me to protect my sensitive ego just enough to give me the courage to act. My techniques make it extremely safe even for the super-shy guy to operate with a quiet, powerful confidence that gets you noticed and eventually hooked-up.
You'll learn how to make fantastic first impressions... converse with a purpose to get the date or phone number that you're seeking... know exactly when to say the right thing at the right moment, etc. etc. You'll even see how to get a girl daydreaming about you when you're not around her.
So break your destructive cycle of fear, anxiety and other self-defeating behaviors that are holding your romantic life down, and get busy designing your own grand adventure.
I just wanted to thank you from the bottom of my heart for writing this book. It has given me a new found optimism that I will soon be having satisfying relationships based on how much more confident with women that I now find myself to be. Iím 28, and the lack of women in my life has taken a severe toll on my emotional well being. It made me spend what should have been the best years of my life in serious despair. There are a lot of lonely people like me in this world and what you are doing to help us is very needed and appreciated. I honestly feel the decision to purchase your book may have saved my life. Thank you Mike! ~ Ray Masters
Your humorous delivery and crisp writing style make your books the most enjoyable e-books I've ever encountered. I've seen many different authors on TV droning on about their "great" books (many of which I've actually read) which can't hold a candle to your materials. I found myself being pulled magnetically from page to page and ended up reading 40 and 50 page blocks of Without Embarrassment at a time -- hardly without realizing it! Based on the impressive knowledge about this subject that you bring to the table and your precise and entertaining presentation of it, I don't understand why you aren't more famous and well known than you seem to be. You need a better agent! ~ Arias Sunne
Hi Mike, I am quite an intelligent guy: 169 IQ, 1510 SAT, MENSA member (not to brag ;-) and I must say that I found your book immensely enlightening and insightful much on the same scale that I found physics books such as Steven Hawking's A Brief History of Time, Feyman's Quantum ElectroDynamics and Lederman's The God Particle highly thought-provoking. I was humbled by your intellect and your knowledge of this material on a MASSIVE scale. You Sir are "THE MAN" ~ Rick Nolan
This is a very intelligent and well thought out book... I have a background in Psychology and I studied several classics such as Freud, Jung, Kubler-Ross etc. When I picked up Without Embarrassment my expectations were low, instead I was pleasantly surprised: from cover to cover this book is full of intelligent perspectives about male-female relationships and the attraction between sexes, all told with a sparkling sense of humor! This book is practical, subtle, and it's miles ahead of all the "alpha male" kind of unrealistic books that you can find around. I can't praise "Without Embarrassment" highly enough, and I just wish I had read it much earlier. Strongly recommended. ~ Elijah Powell
This book is for guys who are grounded in reality, not kung-fu pickup artist fantasies. This book is for the highly intelligent, creative, wonderful guys out there who find themselves paralyzed by shame and fear and thoroughly naive and ignorant in the mating game. This is for guys who simply want to feel like human beings, not pimps. ~ Tone Poem
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Social life going nowhere? No problem, I'll show you how to turn things around for yourself real fast with my new PUA guide designed to help you locate, meet, date and ultimately seduce the girl of your dreams... whoever she may be. You'll learn how to use clever dialogs and project a cool high status alpha-male attitude to create a great vibe with any girl that you choose to set your sights on.
And while dating itself may not always be the nerve-wracking experience that actually meeting a woman can be, it's the ONE place where your dreams can get shipwrecked by just a few innocent mistakes. When it comes to women, first impressions and first dates leave little room for error - judgements are made quickly and often ruthlessly. You need to be at the top of your game nowadays or the competition will sweep you away.
Instead of enduring all this pain and frustration, let She's Yours For The Taking show you how to make psychologically effective moves on women, and best of all, do it routinely in everyday "real life" situations. Real life frequently serves up genuine chances to make out because the usual bullshit "on guard" attitudes that chicks display in environments like nightclubs are nowhere to be found. This sets the stage for a guy to be smooth and fascinating when the girl least expects it, which doubles the romantic impact:
Learn how to apply a "psychology of emotion" to your personality that women will find irresistible...
How to simulate having adequate social skills even if you're scared shitless! Seriously, I've perfected a quick & simple NLP trick that you can use to trick your own mind into delivering a confident posture - "on demand" - whenever you need it, in any situation...
Learn how to use effective opening comments that intrigue women rather than get them looking for someone else to talk to...
Rejection fears are addressed... making a smooth recovery from a 'no', getting past the dreaded first phone call - and even knowing the perfect way to end a first date...
Learn my very casual cold-meeting move called pull tabbing. It works with pre-scripted routines which can be modified to suit your style and then memorized. Now you can do something with those unexpected "gotcha" chances to meet women that make you want to kick yourself in the ass for missing them!
Let's face it... it can be tough to know exactly how to act around any particular woman in order to get her to dig you. In our desperation we sometimes try to be a nice guy but not too nice, a steadfast guy who tries to demonstrate that he takes no crap from women... then blows everything up by provoking an argument... etc. etc.
She's Yours lays out dozens of creative strategies to help get you through this ridiculous social minefield. I'm sure that before long it will become your #1 reference for solving all the problems that you're ever likely to have gaming women... from meeting and dating them, to ultimately bedding the right one just the way that she loves it.
Mike, I am truly impressed with the insights you possess in regards to the whole male-female relationship thing. The past few weeks have been an incredible confidence boost for me. At the bars, Iím concentrating on displaying a high status male aura and dear lord... it absolutely works! ~ Bob Wilneck
Just last night I was at the bar with a few friends and, after walking over to put a few quarters on the pool table, I turned around to find a nice looking blonde with her hand outstretched offering me her name, and asking me for mine! I did a pull tab like you described in your book, and I'll tell you I could see in her eyes that she was into me, it was like I was the only person in her world at that moment. It has been a long time since something like that has happened to me! It gave me a big feeling of crazy confidence that made me feel like I could take on the whole bar! Your high status methods totally rock out buddy! ~ Mike Tellus
17 Video Training Lectures (2 hours total), Plus audio soundtracks and 4 PDF Study Guides
(* Formerly: Dealing With Your Fear of Rejection audio program)
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Masterful Social Skills For Men is a confidence-boosting experience for guys who would like to have a structured pick up routine all loaded up in their heads ready to put into play at a moment's notice whenever they encounter an attractive woman... anywhere and everywhere that you happen to run across them: at work, in the gym, the mall, the classroom, at social gatherings, etc.
The program includes actual dialogs that you can use to force critical turns in any ordinary conversation - giving you the freedom to escalate things romantically whenever you choose to do so. These laser-targeted "things to say" can be fully customized to suit your own personal style and personality, based on a simple formula that you can use to structure unique conversational dialogs for yourself.
These structured workarounds for shyness and fear of rejection are woven throughout what I call the "Pull Tabbing" process - which is a practiced routine for casually (and discreetly) sampling the personalities of all the various women who may interest you. I'm talking about a customized routine (but NOT a robotic one) that you can switch into instantly whenever you may need it in order to give yourself something cool, clever and purposeful to say to any women who catches your eye.
"Gone are the days of not knowing what to say!"
You'll learn how to engage in targeted conversations that can flip any ordinary encounter from boring chit-chat into one suddenly having a clear and exciting man-woman edge to it...
Course focuses on dealing with that miserable fear of rejection that stops guys from expressing themselves in a dynamic and attractive way around interesting women...
Actual (customizable) dialogs will act as confidence generators to prevent you from having to endure the dreaded "blank mind disease"... you know, when you see a girl who looks approachable but you can't think of anything clever to say to her, so you say nothing?
Rejected?... No problem: the 'Graceful Extraction Statement' shields you from having to endure any embarrassment whatsoever.
I've corresponded with hundreds of men over the past 11 years since I released my first book Without Embarrassment on this subject of social shyness and rejection fear, and I've come to understand the sorts of common and repeated problems that they have endured through the stories they've shared with me. Many of these issues stem from a specific sort of shame which can get lodged in your unconscious mind at some unsuspecting point in your life, where it then modifies your situational behaviors in ways that it mistakenly believes will protect it.
This easy-to-digest video training program (2 hours total spread over 17 concise "lectures") will show you how to identify the internal issues that have been driving your fear and social failure... creating all the romantic excitement that you can possibly handle in the process. Plus it includes complete audio soundtracks for private listening and 4 pdf study guides.
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